30 plus years on from Dustin Hoffman’s Oscar-winning performance as Raymond “Ray” Babbitt, an autistic savant in the multi-Oscar winning Rain Man, autism stereotypes persist. It could be argued that following the release of the Hollywood movie in 1988, the whole world knew what “autistic savant” meant. Indeed, it made autistic people visible, but it can also be argued it helped perpetuate myths and stereotypes.
Here are some of the most annoying stereotypes autistic people have to deal with
“All autistic people are like Rainman”
Not all autistic people are savants. Every individual is unique, with their own strengths and challenges.
“You don’t look autistic”
There is no “autistic look.” Autism is a neurodevelopmental condition, not a visible trait.
“Everyone is a little autistic”
Saying this diminishes the real and complex experiences of autistic people.
“Autistic people are great at math”
Some are, but others may excel in art, writing, communication, or many other areas – or struggle in all of them. Autism doesn’t equal genius.
“What’s the best thing about being autistic?”
Autism is not a superpower or a curse. It’s a way of experiencing the world, with highs and lows like anyone else.
“Autistic people can’t feel empathy”
Many autistic people experience deep empathy. They may express or process it differently, but that doesn’t mean it’s absent.
”You could be normal if you tried”
Autism is not a behavioural choice. Telling someone to “act normal” is dismissive and harmful.
So, what’s your superpower?
Not every autistic person has a ‘special ability.’ This stereotype can create unrealistic expectations.
“Autistic people don’t have relationships or sex”
Many autistic people have fulfilling romantic and sexual relationships. They value connection like anyone else.
“Autistic people can’t work”
Many autistic individuals thrive in the workplace, especially with the right support and understanding.
“Autistic people are rude”
What some perceive as rudeness is often a difference in communication style or sensory overload – not lack of kindness or intent.
“Autism is caused by bad parenting or vaccines”
This harmful myth has been debunked countless times. Autism is not caused by parenting style or vaccination.
“Autism is a childhood condition”
Autistic children grow up to be autistic adults. It’s lifelong, even if support needs change over time.
Autistic people don’t want friends
Many autistic people desire friendships but may struggle with social cues. Support and patience go a long way.
Only boys are autistic
Autism affects all genders. Girls and women are often underdiagnosed due to outdated diagnostic criteria and masking.
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